I’m talking moving to a new place where you don’t know anyone.

A new career

New friends

New family

New life

I’m planning on starting all over again.

All my attachments to my old life is gone. I’m stuck living the old life I setup for myself but no reason to continue living like that. I need another life like that Kanye song.

But I wanted to see some other stories so I have a better sense of what I’m getting myself into.

How do you live?

what kanye song are you specifically referring to

Yeah I’ve done it a few times in the past 20 years, I might only have one or two more in me but I actually enjoy building from scratch

I had to start over after losing 92 bricks

“Ever wish you had another life?”

Come To Life

What’s the process like? Did you get your affairs in order or just went at it head first?

Yep multiple times. All for the better

Like my mom told me the last time I had to do it “don’t be afraid to take the leap”

Tbh all the "New" talk made me think he was talking about New Again.

That one works too tbh

I usually job hunt and send out applications before moving, I like to pull up to a new place with a job offer already secured

I’ve done it on a whim a few times and it was tough but nothing impossible to handle

my buddy up and moved across the country to colorado springs a few years ago and has been bouncing around ever since, SLC and all that over there

you make it sound super hard just find a job then you’ll get friends there then a girlfriend then you’re set

but also id make sure your old life and routines don’t follow you if theyre bad

yes. 6 april 2018. minus the family

I’ve started over 3 times and I’m not 30

2019
2021
2024

yeah at 30 it was great. i felt reborn

I did things on a whim, accepted the job without hesitation, ended up in Bahamas for 6 months and Kansas City for 3 months back to back living alone lmfao learning about myself and getting experiences in parts of the world/country I never imagined before, even if it wasn’t always exciting it was brand new and taught me what I value (time with family/friends). Honestly, I think everyone should take the risk at least once and get out of your comfort space cause you never know where you’ll end up or who it will teach you that you truly are

too much family responsibility but I dream of doing this all the time

yeah i abandoned my kids one time s*** was litty, f*** those ingrates

To Japan yes but ehhh work wise it’s depressing af there

You only have one life

Do whatever it takes to work towards being able to live the life you want. At the end of the day, the only person you have to rely on is yourself so keep pushing... one step at a time.

conversely, u make it sound super easy

I’ve started over, moved out the country and it didn’t work out, had to start over again.

The wasted time sucks but I don’t regret it. If it had worked out it would’ve been the best decision of my life.

just need to get my feet planted in one place and actually put in some work. Too much moving around has lost me some good relationships

@plants moved to paris