i was thinking about the about relationships that people find themselves in that are dysfunctional and toxic asf because both parties lacked the introspection to see that outside of the bedroom, individuals have to take time to get to know each other on an emotionally level, understand their communication style and all that , it's like some folks just see someone who is easy on the eye and that is all that is necessary to meet the threshold of relationship material... and i'm like wtaf!?

personally, i think the baddest chicks are the ones who are the most sensitive, emotionally attuned, mature, and with passion in spades. looks are incredibly important, however if you have a ferrari without the engine i don't see the hype.

is valuing looks over other traits essentially dumb as f*ck?

Prioritize

thanks

idk bout objectively
but subjectively...

Naw

hmmm... it's like how is any relationship going to last if it's just exclusively based on mutual physical attraction towards one another after the honeymoon period concludes then one can predict that the proverbial s*** will hit the fan.

ppl have preferences

nothing wrong if they prefer looks

a cute girl with no body is still a cute girl

take from that what you will

No

it don't make no sense though man i can understand for a fun little fling like a friends with benefits stiutation, however if you want a loving, long-term, and fruitful experience with a lover then after a while the novelty of just f***ing them cause they are hot will dissipate is there if there is nothing else to uphold the relationship

It’s not just s***some people really love looks and aesthetics in not just people but all things in life. Imagine you have a hot wife that ages well that you can just buy cool clothing for have her sitting in the passenger seat of your cool car and she has enough going on in her head that you can have good enough conversations and you both just live a life where everything is beautiful idk everyone is different

i guess it's down to preference at the end of the day and that. i just observe these things as a partner is someone who is essentially a best friend you are sleeping with, but that takes up like 15% of the time you spend together and the rest of the time there got to be some bond to keep you together outside of the bedroom.

we only care about how many bodies she has

Depends what you think evolution is for

yea can't have a conversation with them it's always "yea marx was right can we f*** now?" 😔😔😔

part of being with somebody includes aging and growing with them. essentially, falling in love with the same person over and over again.

how it started (wow she’s hot) and how it’s going (wow she’s my rock) can be two different things yet it’s still love.

feels this misses the mark

you shouldnt be in a relationship if you aren't physically attracted and emotionally attuned with your partner

damn

An ugly girl with a big booty still got a big booty

Looks will fade, everyone saying that there’s nothing wrong with basing your relationship predominantly on looks are naive

Looks don’t really fade

But yeah don’t base entirely on looks

No one looks the same from day one into a relationship

People don’t seek relationships that lasts more than 3-5 years, that’s why everyone is so hyper focused on the physical

Does it matter? Yes you have to be attracted to you partner but when you talking about being with someone for the rest of your life, you have to accept that your partner will look different during different phases through yall lives. What keeps you together then?

now walk around with that face card exactly

no its the opposite

we do oomf?