the 4th one ur missing is "she likes me but i dont like her like that but we still hang out"

Hmmm i wonder why

this more common then we think as men but we never internally register it as friend-zoning lol.

s*** just looks overrated yo lol.

I just love intimacy and I like people a lot v easily, i am a huge fan of cuddling yea lol. if I’m not dating I have like 3-4 crushes a year

I didn’t know about cuddle parties lmao that’s a thing? My thing is I have to be into the person like as a whole.

I am excited that he’s staying longer but it’ll still sting when he dips but it’s ok that’s better cuz I can plan and we can have aftercare and s***, hes rly beautiful id def date him if he lived here tbh

i didnt know there was a word for my dilemma

I’ve always thought this but then again I’m not rly a s***guy like that

it's not a dilemma you just friend zoning women lol.

you just understand how they feel when the shoe is on the other foot.

moreso just looks like a lot of work that looks like a good idea on pron brain but irl it's like that one episode of Insecure when Lawrence got wore out by the 1st person and was tired before 2nd jawn lol.

Yea me too, my last relationship partway thru I realized I had to move to Canada and it was the most painful thing ever I think this kinda triggered that pain a bit, I wanna move to Toronto or NY within 2 years so idk if I should date anyone but that would kinda suck

or you find someone with a similar vision

perhaps
That would be a unicorn tbh
I rly appreciate ur earnestness and care in these life threads btw i thought u would hate me off our rap arguments lol

Yea exactly lmfao A. Ngl it would be overstimulating B. I don’t wanna see someone I like getting f***ed or something C. Hassle to manage in the moment
I’d way rather just enjoy my time with one person if u have s***u know the more intimate generally the better and there’s so much that goes into it being good

no lol.

i look at forums like battle raps, unless you like a racist or a bigot I'm probably just hate you in one thread and then be on the same page in another

Same
Real

i mean depending on the arrangement the 2 of the 3some are gettin done by u

but thats triple fax

Ok ngl I def caught feelings for bro I saw someone else in his ig post and got mad for a second at the idea it’s someone he dated but it’s ok after he dips it’ll just fade I’ve seen dis movie

why dont you just ask brodie "yo bro we belong together"

tru but like
Let’s say ur role also is just like not doing s*** it’s still like
Let’s say the two are tops then ngl communication gets harder cuz that’s a very delicate game
If ur one of the tops or both r bottoms it just seems like a lot at once
Ngl tho put me in a room with Ecco and Jacob elordi ..

His ass going to Yukon on Thursday he got employment lol he’s only here for a week to get his car working and see some family

Otherwise I def would date him tbh or atleast be fwb

should've added me into the mix

call it four play

its a niche audience fosho in the same breath as left field underground rapper stan type s***.

ive found it to be fun but i didnt feel the soulless energy happening after it, so i guess thats why. definitely not doing that everytime tho lol.

its also a bit nervewrecking.... I would really have to trust someone when thats happenin. i was also the bottom so yea

idk who those men are slime but it's good to fantasize

personally I just want jill scott and badu to read me bedtime stories back to back.

ngl love is more important than a job

finding love is the most important part of life lowkey