What does get over mean tho
Like it's impossible to completely forget about a person that meant so much to you, the first time u actually cared about someone on a deep level
That u actually went completely vulnerable with
Prolly alot of "firsts" in those memories too
I just accepted she was a part of my life and helped me grow as a person and those parts will always be with me
Do I long for her? Nope
Do I get emotional? Nope
It's like speaking about a high school friend, it happened, it's experienced, we have grown
Trying to suppress it will prolly cause the opposite effect and will give it a negative stench
Like at the start after our break up, some thoughts triggered me or really hurt
I just went to the root of said problem, had to accept what happened and the memories just didn't hurt
Also for places I visited with her or that were heavily connected to her, new memories will take it's place and time will heal it
im still w her bro ^_^
No cap I think me havingy first in my 20s
Actually gave me a more adult approach to it
I can imagine in ur teens it's harder to accept, cause u think different/hormones work different
And alot of things were things I've seen ma friends go through too, ofc experiencing it yaself is very different but it was in the back of my mind
As they say time really does heal for the most part. Just accept that it is what it is and move on. Of course you won’t completely forget about your first though that’ll last forever tbh. Also knowing that they’re not the only person out there helps too
New p**** tbh. Go out with friends, start school again. Stop stalking them
These suggestions
We get it bro
time but you’ll still think about them.
it just doesn’t hurt as much.
This too, also if she left you out to dry then why tf you even care anymore lol
If it wasn't for friends and my hobbies, I probably would have been sunken into depression by now