OP I know how you feel I've been at rock bottom a few times in my life and I know it sounds corny but trust be this is only a temporary chapter
Everything in life is temporary including the high points but life tends to balance out with highs and lows and ultimately everything will be ok in the end
i'm reaching a low in life.
haven't been able to get a new job after going through interviews and companies saying i did well or saying the position is already filled.
don't have many friends IRL and haven't had any luck with dating (had 2 recent dates and they didn't go anywhere - girls weren't interested in actually talking during the date).
just feeling stuck and nothing good is happening in my life. how do i stay afloat besides working out?
welcome to my life keep at it dont give up take it day by day plus i have a medicial condition too
maybe travel for a bit go somewhere nice and cheap and have fun
OP I know how you feel I've been at rock bottom a few times in my life and I know it sounds corny but trust be this is only a temporary chapter
Everything in life is temporary including the high points but life tends to balance out with highs and lows and ultimately everything will be ok in the end
appreciate it man.
just seems like nothing is working out for me rn. i'm grateful for what i have (a job, roof over my head, food, my health, etc.) given what's going in on the world.
but i'm trying to improve and just stuck atm. no girl, no leveling up in my job (they're not doing promotions for awhile and i've been trying to leave for months now), not too many close friends to hang out with, etc.
i'm reaching a low in life.
haven't been able to get a new job after going through interviews and companies saying i did well or saying the position is already filled.
don't have many friends IRL and haven't had any luck with dating (had 2 recent dates and they didn't go anywhere - girls weren't interested in actually talking during the date).
just feeling stuck and nothing good is happening in my life. how do i stay afloat besides working out?
I’m with you except working too much, too many/too long shifts because some of these guys are bozos. I’ve been crashing out and normally I’m a calm collected guy so it’s out of character and scary
I’m with you except working too much, too many/too long shifts because some of these guys are bozos. I’ve been crashing out and normally I’m a calm collected guy so it’s out of character and scary
hang in there bro. hopefully, life gets better soon
hang in there bro. hopefully, life gets better soon
Same to you, and it will for both of us.
"had 2 recent dates and they didn't go anywhere - girls weren't interested in actually talking during the date"
assuming you're talking about online dating? I feel like a lot of people on these apps aren't really looking for anything real, they just date because amatonormativity is a b****... not realizing they're not even at a point in their lives where the confines of a relationship make sense for them or they just don't have s*** to say to a relative stranger they probably had unrealistic expectations of... a lot of these people are just bored and don't know what they want, this how you get these awkward dates with ppl who can't get a word out and look like "wtf am i even doing here?"
It doesn't look good on me. I've been told I look like Mbappe, not Devin Booker
start learning french and buy a real madrid kit
Go on walks
Volunteer in your community
Learn a new skill
Spend time with a family member
Delete socials like someone else said, I deleted mine like 4 years ago and it’s been amazing
Get really good sleep everyday
You need to look at things from a different perspective. For example my main source of depression used to be the fact I never had a gf. That hasn’t changed but now I’m at peace with it and honestly that’s how I like it. Everyone I know has relationship problems or is divorced.
Id still like to experience that myself but I won’t let myself get down about it. I focus on the positives. You could be living in a war torn country starving to death. Look at what you have not what you don’t have

Uhuh
Hate f*** hoes that’s what I do
dont have any advice but in regards to finding a job, i've heard from a bunch of people that it's extremely difficult rn. its discouraging to continuously get rejected/ghosted but maybe it helps to know its not just you. having hobbies that get you outside like going to concerts, rock climbing, playing pool, etc. or volunteering for something you care about are all good ways to meet new people. i see a cross in your bio, do you go church regularly? could be another good way of meeting people
Imo it’s a bit tone deaf to suggest people find hobbies knowing that person is unemployed don’t you think? There was nothing malicious about your comment so I apologize if it seems like I’m attacking you for just trying to offer sincere advice, but yeah
there are very few things anybody who can’t even find any kind of work let alone a job that pays well enough to have their basic needs met would then be able to afford to make time for nor have the disposable income necessary to engage in
Imo it’s a bit tone deaf to suggest people find hobbies knowing that person is unemployed don’t you think? There was nothing malicious about your comment so I apologize if it seems like I’m attacking you for just trying to offer sincere advice, but yeah
there are very few things anybody who can’t even find any kind of work let alone a job that pays well enough to have their basic needs met would then be able to afford to make time for nor have the disposable income necessary to engage in
Ur one of the worst posters on this site