@op whatever you do, don't get into a physical altercation. The fastest way to undermine your position is with a poor handling of it.
Nah we're cordial now. He seems like he's starting to come around to me again lol (it's crazy as f*** playing this double agent s*** where I gotta pretend to be cool, when in reality I'm telling him "fuck you".).
But yeah I just do as he says and don't question s***. I'm still on the look out for any misconduct tho.
@op whatever you do, don't get into a physical altercation. The fastest way to undermine your position is with a poor handling of it.
Counter argument
Beat him up if an appropriate opportunity presents itself @op
A job is temporary but a good story can last forever
Counter argument
Beat him up if an appropriate opportunity presents itself @op
A job is temporary but a good story can last forever
I concur
@op do exactly this
Dude's an actual menace. It's a long ass story about how he's a woman abuser and all this s***, but I can't really say that at work cuz of the legal ramifications (this mfer is literally suing one of my friends mom's for telling people about his abuse, with police reports and complaints and all to corroborate her, she wasn't the one being abused, she just knows a few women that have shown proof).
Anyways, I work in IT and this dumb ass sucks at his job luckily, so I got plenty of evidence Ive collected over months of not only his incompetence, but straight up malicious behavior: He breaks systems to create problems to "fix" or to sabotage someone's workflow that he's mad at. He straight up disables people's logins because they sent an email that made him mad, then he blames it on some glitch when they can't work for a day (I have proof of this via audit logs and a few contextual messages, unfortunately I don't have voice recordings of him saying it, but he's most definitely told me straight up that that's what he does).
And that's on top of how technically illiterate he is. He's supposed to be the Director of IT and he doesn't know how SMTP/Email works. Doesn't know DNS or records. Mfer asked me what a FTP server was lmao. Doesn't know how to properly manage a network or servers. Has no idea what Linux is. bro tests his stupid Intune policies on PRODUCTION and breaks s*** all the time for people, then I have to come in and fix it, find the root cause, and kindly tell his stupid ass to undo whatever he did. When I tried to ask about using test users and groups he was like "Why?”
They literally got this contractor dude who actually knows his s*** to do all the "hard" s*** my boss can't do, no joke lmao. That dude is the one who set up the entire network, the VLANs, routing, wifi networks, VPNs, etc. He even set up the Active Directory Windows server. What the f*** is my boss even there for, I can literally do (and have done) all that s***. My boss claims to always be busy with other stuff, but has literally NOTHING to show for it.
Basically, I went to his boss (VP of Ops) and told her everything I could after he yelled at me on the phone for not going on site to fix a printer issue at the end of the work day (wasn't even urgent, they had a second printer to use, plus I was literally gonna address it the next day). I told his ass straight up: he's not a team player, I leave notes for him, send him texts, emails, call him (he picks up like 50% of the time), yet he never does his part. Then he tries to say I don't do anything and just sit in my office all day (LMAO). I was a lil heated, so I told him man you're not busy, you say you're working at home then go to the bar and get drunk and then call me about stuff I need to do while being noticeably inebriated (This 100% has happened multiple times). That pissed him off so much lmao. He was denying it like a mfer, talking about he's got GPS location on his phone and can show proof (bullshit lmfao, he already knows how to spoof his location because he lost custody of his kid so he tries to prove to the judge he's not at the bar all the time like he is, but it's futile cause his son has literally said he's scared of him and doesn't want to see him (my friends mom is friends with his BM)).
it's a coincidence that yesterday he saw me talking to this woman (one of my brother's old best friends) that he hates (because she knows about his s*** too, we were downtown at an event), and I think because of that, he thinks of me as an enemy now (he's a narcissist with mental issues), so now he's going to try and make my life hell by nitpicking all kinds of s***. Like the above accusation makes no sense. In my SOP, it says I must do everything I can to get things solved remotely as to not waste my time going some where. But now suddenly he wants me to drive every where as soon as there's an issue reported, huge contradiction. He's purposely trying to inconvenience me so that I crash out and leave.
The VP was very nice and understanding. She took notes about what I said and I could tell she was shocked when I dropped the bit about him disabling people's access and blaming it on glitches.
On top of that, the entire org hates him. Literally everyone says the same thing about him lmao.
One of the Directors of a dept I help a lot reached out to me yesterday to ask if I was good because she knows how big of a d*** he is. And the s*** was a little harrowing tbh, not only did she recognize how s***ty he is at his job, she was begging me not to leave and keep my cool because she didn't want me to leave them alone with him (it's just us two in the IT dept). They're literally so scared of him because he's so rude and uncooperative. And he's always able to get his way somehow. He's one of those people that when you ask him a question, he gets annoyed as if you're asking him some dumb s***. Which is ironic because the dude doesn't even know how to do half the stuff that's expected of someone at his level.
I work in a female dominated org (like literally 80-90% women), so this s*** is actually insane to me. He abuses and harasses women in his personal life, then sabotages them and gaslights them in his professional life. He needs to be stopped. I wrote this big ass essay (which I didnt even mean to), and I still haven't even told the half of it lmao. This s*** has been eating away at me for months and I finally hit the breaking point.
I spoke to his boss in private, and then sent all the relevant screenshots (nearly 30) I got to his boss, with an explanation behind each one. I feel like I've unleashed something I can't come back from, and these next few days/weeks are going to be very interesting (honestly stressful as f***). ATP fire me, s*** would be a gift to be free from all this bs, plus I could just get unemployment while I find another job. Not ideal but it's better than having to work with an arrogant s*** head who's constantly trying to get me in trouble.
Tl;dr: Boss is a known woman abuser/harrasser, somehow the job doesn't know about it or something despite being a 80-90% female dominated place, but the part I'm trying to get him in trouble for is actual work s***: He sabotages systems to keep people from being able to work because they made him mad, or they won't let him do something, then blames it on glitches. Creates literally all his own problems. It's a cycle of me basically having to troubleshoot dumb s*** he set up (or sabotaged) and telling him how it can be fixed. Also all of this behavior is basically corroborated by how much everyone there hates him and doesn't trust him (I literally know EVERYONE there cause I'm the frontline IT guy, and I'm cool with them all.)
Tbf, I got about half way b4 I was like, I ain't reading all that But good luck
Damn I was thinking was gonna be some bullshit but you were plotting like Walter White salute
I ain’t reading all that, but when I left my job I had a 2 hour sit down conversation with the CEO to detail to him how terrible my manager’s treatment was towards me and others on the team. she had been there for 20 years so not much I could do to get her fired from my position, but at least she gonna always have that stain on her legacy with the CEO
Not really. Other than dude has been much more proactive and helpful
I imagine the boss must've said something to him, probably kept my name out of it tho.
He's making me clock in and out for lunch now though
, even though it's never been an issue and he even told me when I first started that he's not worried about me clocking in and out for it... I told them that he would start to retaliate over personal stuff last week too, I can't imagine what he'll do once he learns I tried to get him canned.
I was sick yesterday and today so he's out there all alone
I'm guessing they're still investigating. I wouldn't be surprised if it takes a week or two to hear anything. I'm honestly expecting some bullshit, bro's gonna get away scot free just like Trump does every time smh.
I'd low-key be a hero if I could get him out lmao, people hate him there so much. I wonder if this is what his boss has been waiting for too
his boss is a b**** for not cleansing the toxic workspace
double L if you look at it the correct way.
better start looking elsewhere b/c why would u want to work with someone like that for a long period of time.
now you gotta go back to kissing ass b/c he's fake being nice? tuh i got bigger balls
his boss is a b**** for not cleansing the toxic workspace
double L if you look at it the correct way.
better start looking elsewhere b/c why would u want to work with someone like that for a long period of time.
now you gotta go back to kissing ass b/c he's fake being nice? tuh i got bigger balls
Ik, I'm viscously looking for a new job. But the market is horrible bro. Especially in my area
I also been off the last two days so idk what type of s*** has gone down since then lol.
I've already subscribed to the fact that if they fire me I'll just do unemployment and then do freelance work until I can find another IT job. Otherwise I'll say f*** it and go to a factory or sumn.