Basically almost every “fun” aspect that society sets up includes needing to do it with someone else. Going out to movies, eating out, going to bars.
Traveling is even worse cause there ain’t nothing really to do in cities alone, you have to be another NPC that looks to other people for happiness. Obviously this doesn’t apply to family (blood)
insane you listed 3 things you can very easily do alone without feeling weird 😂
You can do all of that by yourself. I traveled to DC for a weekend trip by myself and it was a blast. You can go anywhere you want without having to deal with people who may not have the same interests as you
So you’re mad other people are enjoying activities together even though there’s nothing preventing you from doing those activities on your own?
I diagnose u with antisocial disorder. Maybe also autism spectrum given usage of the word NPC
I go to concerts by myself when nobody else wants to go, it's cool. I can see myself take myself out and go to bars alone. A lot of people travel alone and it's very normal.
It's just usually when you're alone you get to talk to new people you wouldn't otherwise (calling this NPC is weird, it's just human connection?). Or you just chill with yourself and your thoughts. Either way it's cool.
It can be done but you have to try a lot harder and really develop your social skills
doing things alone > doing things in an unhappy relationship
It can be done but you have to try a lot harder and really develop your social skills
you dont need to have any social skills to do the things mentioned
you can go eat and go to the movies without speaking to anyone.
hell you can even have a couple beers and toil in your own thoughts at a bar if you wanted to.
this section is so terrible for actual discussion lol
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insane you listed 3 things you can very easily do alone without feeling weird 😂
FWIW going to a bar solo is pretty miserable, done it only once and felt real uncomfortable
I eat out and go to the movies alone on occasion. I don't think OP needs to waste his time befriending a "NPC" if he wishes to do those activities, he can run them solo.
this section is so terrible for actual discussion lol
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in the case of OP i think they need a reality check more than any actual advice
you dont need to have any social skills to do the things mentioned
you can go eat and go to the movies without speaking to anyone.
hell you can even have a couple beers and toil in your own thoughts at a bar if you wanted to.
Going on holiday by yourself and not speaking to people is brutal lmao
Humans are social beings. Going to bar to just drink by yourself becomes really depressing after night one. Im speaking from experience
OP has a point, society dictates the dynamics for social interaction. Hence why some countries are more easy to visit and make friends as opposed to others
Just put on your headphones, put on some baby keem and let the good times roll 👆👌
Bars sure, but eating out and going to the movies alone doesn't require some crazy amount of effort to pull off
Bars sure, but eating out and going to the movies alone doesn't require some crazy amount of effort to pull off
Going to the movies is legit sitting in silence watching a screen for 2 hours lol
You certainly don't need someone else
Human beings are inherently social creatures. People aren’t NPCs because they enjoy the company of others. Going against your nature doesn’t make you better than other people, it just makes you miserable and foolish if anything