why he start crying for no reason though?
why he start crying for no reason though?
He has BPD and a schizophrenic-like disorder from my understanding
why he start crying for no reason though?
dude filming called him a f@ before the video started (and he's gay so it might have hurt him more than it just being an insult)
and he has mental disorders so you can't expect someone to be perfectly rational
on top of this it looks like it's a breakdown as well and even people without mental disorders will act irrational during a mental breakdown
and then on top of that you have someone filming you during a breakdown in a time of extreme vulnerability
i think crying is one of the most reasonable responses anyone could have
You think homeless people doing crack just to do it? Those addictions being strong enough to make you homeless can stem from the same mental health issues that the kid is dealing with.
This video and that are obviously two different things but ‘people doing crack’ is ‘mental health issues’ too.
He has BPD and a schizophrenic-like disorder from my understanding
dont u think in a position he's in, things are bound to escalate one time tho? shouldn't he not work in places where he can't handle people at their worst, because lets be real, there's all kinds of people
dont u think in a position he's in, things are bound to escalate one time tho? shouldn't he not work in places where he can't handle people at their worst, because lets be real, there's all kinds of people
a mentally ill person is at fault cause some a****** wants to throw a fit and call em slurs ??????
dude filming called him a f@ before the video started (and he's gay so it might have hurt him more than it just being an insult)
and he has mental disorders so you can't expect someone to be perfectly rational
on top of this it looks like it's a breakdown as well and even people without mental disorders will act irrational during a mental breakdown
and then on top of that you have someone filming you during a breakdown in a time of extreme vulnerability
i think crying is one of the most reasonable responses anyone could have
I understand, i actually read up something on it till u replied, but i think he shouldn't work in places like this if he couldn't handle it
you cant expect everyone to tolerate this, there's evil people around and you gotta know how to talk to/combat them so for him he's already at a disadvantage working at a job to provide services for all kinds of people
I understand, i actually read up something on it till u replied, but i think he shouldn't work in places like this if he couldn't handle it
you cant expect everyone to tolerate this, there's evil people around and you gotta know how to talk to/combat them so for him he's already at a disadvantage working at a job to provide services for all kinds of people
You can definitely make an argument that someone who has these issues maybe shouldn't be working in frontline customer service, but that doesn't absolve the other person from being an a******
a mentally ill person is at fault cause some a****** wants to throw a fit and call em slurs ??????
not at fault, but thats what im saying, at a job where u at a service to all kinds of people and you can't handle it, don't that mean that that job not for u tho? thats what im asking
You can definitely make an argument that someone who has these issues maybe shouldn't be working in frontline customer service, but that doesn't absolve the other person from being an a******
im not absolving em, im just saying you're servicing people and you know how people can get
if you meet lots of people, there's bound to be someone that's gonna be a challenge for you, so if you cant handle that then work something else because people not gon show compassion like that
hence the video from one evil don, there could be others thats all im sayin
not at fault, but thats what im saying, at a job where u at a service to all kinds of people and you can't handle it, don't that mean that that job not for u tho? thats what im asking
but im sure he has never had a reaction like that before at his job, because 99.99% of people won't throw out slurs at someone who did nothing wrong
you have to interact with people at nearly every job, he's not at fault because a customer at this specific job was a piece of s***
im not absolving em, im just saying you're servicing people and you know how people can get
if you meet lots of people, there's bound to be someone that's gonna be a challenge for you, so if you cant handle that then work something else because people not gon show compassion like that
hence the video from one evil don, there could be others thats all im sayin
I get what you're saying but you shouldn't necessarily preclude yourself from doing something just because a customer may be an a******. There are tons of people who don't have mental disorders that react poorly to angry customers or intense situations.
Just seems weird to try and care more about why this man was in this situation. It may not have been your intention but it really comes off like you're blaming him
but im sure he has never had a reaction like that before at his job, because 99.99% of people won't throw out slurs at someone who did nothing wrong
you have to interact with people at nearly every job, he's not at fault because a customer at this specific job was a piece of s***
its true, you're absolutely right, i just think on a job like that bro should be able to keep his composure thats all im saying
I get what you're saying but you shouldn't necessarily preclude yourself from doing something just because a customer may be an a******. There are tons of people who don't have mental disorders that react poorly to angry customers or intense situations.
Just seems weird to try and care more about why this man was in this situation. It may not have been your intention but it really comes off like you're blaming him
not my intention
its just interesting is all, i worked dispatch before and administration so i dealt with a lot of crazy people making demands, also truckers, truckers can get CRAZY on a daily basis so thats why i think u just have to be some combination of numb and idk stable for these kind of jobs i guess?
not my intention
its just interesting is all, i worked dispatch before and administration so i dealt with a lot of crazy people making demands, also truckers, truckers can get CRAZY on a daily basis so thats why i think u just have to be some combination of numb and idk stable for these kind of jobs i guess?
I get what you're saying but at the end of the day the situation never would have arose if the dude wasn't an a******. I'm sure we've all met people who have mental disorders that may not have been readily apparent because we didn't go out of our way to be pieces of s*** to them, so judging someone off of a bad moment went viral isn't that much to go off of.
I get what you're saying but at the end of the day the situation never would have arose if the dude wasn't an a******. I'm sure we've all met people who have mental disorders that may not have been readily apparent because we didn't go out of our way to be pieces of s*** to them, so judging someone off of a bad moment went viral isn't that much to go off of.
yeah but that could be me and you right? we can be cool
thats what im saying, there's people who gon be evil like THIS don so you gotta be prepared for him tho?
yeah but that could be me and you right? we can be cool
thats what im saying, there's people who gon be evil like THIS don so you gotta be prepared for him tho?
That's what I'm saying though. We have no idea the dude's job history. We have no idea if it's the first "incident". Maybe if something like this happens with customers he steps away for a few seconds and comes back fine. Maybe he's been perfect all the way up until this incident? We have no idea what he does to "prepare". It's pointless to speculate because all we have is a clip of this guy at his worst.
Just seems like it's not worth really entertaining that much and instead time is better spent calling the other dude an a******.
That's what I'm saying though. We have no idea the dude's job history. We have no idea if it's the first "incident". Maybe if something like this happens with customers he steps away for a few seconds and comes back fine. Maybe he's been perfect all the way up until this incident? We have no idea what he does to "prepare". It's pointless to speculate because all we have is a clip of this guy at his worst.
Just seems like it's not worth really entertaining that much and instead time is better spent calling the other dude an a******.
nah yeah
in short, mental illness or not, even if it was me in that situation being recorded and insulted i'd get mad too
nah yeah
in short, mental illness or not, even if it was me in that situation being recorded and insulted i'd get mad too
Glad we both cleared this up and arrived at pretty much the same conclusion, people earlier in the thread were super weird and confrontational about it.
Have a good day bro
Glad we both cleared this up and arrived at pretty much the same conclusion, people earlier in the thread were super weird and confrontational about it.
Have a good day bro
man im not even here to argue bro, you know it
what i get from arguing with someone for no reason
i have no reason to defend this phone dude, i was just curious about bro behind the counter
have a good day aswell fam