Y’all bout to be letting your f***ing kid rob a store and then talking to em on the front porch “now you know you can’t do these things it’s bad, i’m gonna have to take your tv for a week now and you’re gonna reflect on what you did”
If your kid robs a store he’s going to juvy and he probably robbed the store because you beat him teaching him mentally that “might is right”
I work at a juvie and have been hit, spit on, choked, even body slammed. I’ve never once even thought about hitting one of these teenagers, some of whom are the size of me for anything they have done. And not because I’m scared of losing my job or getting in trouble, it’s because I love and care about them and want them to become productive people and follow their goals and dreams and heal from the s*** that put them on this path.
Y’all don’t even be reading when I say yes there’s obviously more methods you should try
Inb4 whooping your kid is child abuse takes
if i beat my partner with the same justification people give spanking then it's domestic abusie
if i beat my partner with the same justification people give spanking then it's domestic abusie
And getting hit as a kid teaches both victims and abusers that hitting someone you love/getting hit by someone you love is normal.
Y’all don’t even be reading when I say yes there’s obviously more methods you should try
Violence should never even been considered as an OPTION
if i beat my partner with the same justification people give spanking then it's domestic abusie
This might be the dumbest f***ing s*** I’ve ever read
The guy saying shut up and calling people pussies to everything he disagrees with is the same one saying “but you aren’t listening to what I’m saying”
That’s not how trauma works. Most of the trauma you encounter you are unaware of it and it’s impact but it 100% shapes your behavior forever.
idk I’m a pretty happy guy for what it’s worth.
Maybe im becoming old school. But either way I don’t exactly want kids. Love kids. Love teaching them about the world as it’s completely brand new to them. But I don’t have the financial means if I did end up having one and I don’t think i have the mental capacity to even take that challenge on right now. I don’t really think I ever want to have a child. It is ALLOT of responsibility and this world is changing so fast that I can’t imagine raising a human in it
You shut up. Your kids are going to be embarrassed you are their father
I’m a great father but go off
I’m a great father but go off
When your kid is in therapy in 15 years I want you to remember this moment
When your kid is in therapy in 15 years I want you to remember this moment
y'all are so dumb
This might be the dumbest f***ing s*** I’ve ever read
probably because you're not wanting to actually engage critically in any discussion but it's ok
i get it it's hard to change parenting styles especially when your only exposure to it is how you're raised
I’m a great father but go off
Everything you’ve said in this thread suggest the opposite. Even if you really are a good father I’d suggest rethinking all of these thoughts about violence towards children before you do something to your kids you will regret forever.
I say that from one father to another.
I’m a great father but go off
I hope your kids will see this thread or other dumb s*** you're probably saying everywhere else
When your kid is in therapy in 15 years I want you to remember this moment
In b4 upstanding citizen
The guy saying shut up and calling people pussies to everything he disagrees with is the same one saying “but you aren’t listening to what I’m saying”
Because y’all aren’t, like at all. Every time you quote me you read between the lines of what I’ve said and run with your own wrong f***ing narrative that I didn’t even put out in the first place.