it didnt make me afraid, didnt have time tbh

good discipline != dangle punishment

i wasnt THREATENED like some parents do

and it worked MOST of the time tbh, actually it always worked until i outgrew spanking but then u have people who arent ur parents that will check u

id even consider smacking the s*** out of someone in public who openlt disrespects u as discipline but that's grey area and a precursor for an assault charge

Also, for the most part I trust in science, but at the same time scientists can’t decide whether milk is good or bad for you so I think that says allot

It’s just an example but I meant more that they learn that biting someone results in pain not only for that person they’re biting but risks the same pain for themselves. Which is a much better deterrent than “taking a toy away” or whatever because they know that won’t be a risk with kids or people they decide to bite outside the house.

facts

I’m confused, if you weren’t afraid then how did it help you? What got you to stop acting up if it wasn’t fear?

i forgot about biting, wow haha

i was never a little piece of s*** like that tho

Yeah. We should probably just operate based on our personal experiences for everything then.

the overall act of my mum giving an asswooping in general, and the embarrassment involved was enough to finally learn that my behaviour was affecting others to the point where i should stop, many times the spanking wasnt enough to hurt me..

there actually were times when i did the wrong thing AGAIN, knowing the asswooping was coming but for some reason my brain wasnt mature enough to see that my behaviour was wrong until i got a bit older or i witnessed some1 else doing it

very grey area tbh

I fully agree

Go read the first page. While it’s not directly said, it’s all in their energy, thinking people should be castrated and such.

Some thing don’t have to be said to be understood. Clearly a lot of the anti-whoopers harbor resentment for other who believe different and it is probably due to their own traumas from their abusive upbringings and this is them projecting it.

I feel bad for the abused of courses, as I was also maybe “over-disciplined” by a father driven by anger more so than reason most of the time, but that’s not always the case just because it was for me and I understand that.

Just because you (not you, just in general) had a bad experience doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone else. I think why alot of anti-whoopers are so triggered by this debate, is because they are putting their abusive parent’s face on the person who is making the counter-argument. They are turning people with difference of opinion into their enemy due to their own projections rather than logically and reasonably debating and separating their feeling and experiences from an issue that is much bigger than just themselves and their pain.

Yak would be a great father

Wonder how hed react to her making emo girl.

38 pages

The evidence is the quote at the end of the last page

“For the most part I trust science”

Yep cause if violence was never the answer than hitler would have stayed in power.

Extreme example, but it’s true.

Personally though I believe there to be a big difference between violence and discipline.

Yes.

I think you always knew your behavior was affecting others. I think you did it anyways because you were selfish.

Whooping is a fear tactic. Maybe you think fear tactics are effective. That’s understandable. But when you got your ass beat, I don’t think you were experiencing extreme empathy for the people you wronged. I think you were experiencing pain. And fear.

You can tell who isn’t black by those saying a whooping is child abuse

There isn't a logical distinction between spanking and domestic abuse

how the f*** this do 38 pages on a Saturday night don't y'all got lives?

lot of assumption for one post

Mandatory Yak repost every few pages to cut the tension

its 11am on a Sunday broski