Apr 29, 2024·1 reply
FlyHiii@OP why not just whack it when she's not in the mood
You gotta look at yourself in the mirror and think: I'm 30 years old and have met a beautiful person that matches me well and that I'm about to marry. Would you want to hurt that person, bring shame upon yourself etc just for some p****? What is this, high school?
If the answer is yes, then that means you clearly lack discipline and self control. And in that case I have no clue how you supposedly have gotten ''rich'' if you lack those things
Please either seek help because the way you're continuing rn will destroy peoples' lives including your own. What if you end up having kids with her and still live like a dog? You want to pass on this situation to your own blood?
The other option might be to realize you still prefer to live a more wild lifestyle in terms of s***and your current woman doesn't fit in anymore. In that case TALK to her. Communicate like a MAN and find a solution. Whether that be y'all work it out or y'all call the wedding off.
At the very least tell her. You don't want to live with the eternal guilt of betraying the one that should be your partner until you both die.
OP this whole post is genuine so I hope you listen
listen man i dont think you understand what good p**** does to a mf
Apr 29, 2024FlyHiii@OP why not just whack it when she's not in the mood
You gotta look at yourself in the mirror and think: I'm 30 years old and have met a beautiful person that matches me well and that I'm about to marry. Would you want to hurt that person, bring shame upon yourself etc just for some p****? What is this, high school?
If the answer is yes, then that means you clearly lack discipline and self control. And in that case I have no clue how you supposedly have gotten ''rich'' if you lack those things
Please either seek help because the way you're continuing rn will destroy peoples' lives including your own. What if you end up having kids with her and still live like a dog? You want to pass on this situation to your own blood?
The other option might be to realize you still prefer to live a more wild lifestyle in terms of s***and your current woman doesn't fit in anymore. In that case TALK to her. Communicate like a MAN and find a solution. Whether that be y'all work it out or y'all call the wedding off.
At the very least tell her. You don't want to live with the eternal guilt of betraying the one that should be your partner until you both die.
OP this whole post is genuine so I hope you listen
real 1
- Apr 29, 2024
If I can do it at 25 you can do it in your 30s. How hard is it to just stay loyal man especially if you Love her. I've been going with the same girl for almost 8 years now and even at times when we haven't had s***for a couple weeks I'd just beat my meat there's no way in hell I would ever betray her and the foundation of our relationship like that
- Apr 29, 2024
didnt jeff bezos divorce his wife and lost half of his money because he was cheating or sum
OPApr 29, 2024FlyHiii@OP why not just whack it when she's not in the mood
You gotta look at yourself in the mirror and think: I'm 30 years old and have met a beautiful person that matches me well and that I'm about to marry. Would you want to hurt that person, bring shame upon yourself etc just for some p****? What is this, high school?
If the answer is yes, then that means you clearly lack discipline and self control. And in that case I have no clue how you supposedly have gotten ''rich'' if you lack those things
Please either seek help because the way you're continuing rn will destroy peoples' lives including your own. What if you end up having kids with her and still live like a dog? You want to pass on this situation to your own blood?
The other option might be to realize you still prefer to live a more wild lifestyle in terms of s***and your current woman doesn't fit in anymore. In that case TALK to her. Communicate like a MAN and find a solution. Whether that be y'all work it out or y'all call the wedding off.
At the very least tell her. You don't want to live with the eternal guilt of betraying the one that should be your partner until you both die.
OP this whole post is genuine so I hope you listen
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- Apr 29, 2024LABRADOR
listen man i dont think you understand what good p**** does to a mf
No, that's a whack excuse and if you truly believe fye p**** makes infidelity right then you're either not mature enough or just a f***ing a******. This is not some fling he's been dating. It's about to be his WIFE for god's sake bruh
- Apr 29, 2024
ask main for a side as she isn't fulfilling your sexual needs
Apr 29, 2024·1 replyYou're a piece of s***
- OPApr 29, 2024·2 repliesWilliam Ackman
You're a piece of s***
I kno, I kno
Working on it
- OPApr 29, 2024·1 replyFlyHiii
@OP why not just whack it when she's not in the mood
You gotta look at yourself in the mirror and think: I'm 30 years old and have met a beautiful person that matches me well and that I'm about to marry. Would you want to hurt that person, bring shame upon yourself etc just for some p****? What is this, high school?
If the answer is yes, then that means you clearly lack discipline and self control. And in that case I have no clue how you supposedly have gotten ''rich'' if you lack those things
Please either seek help because the way you're continuing rn will destroy peoples' lives including your own. What if you end up having kids with her and still live like a dog? You want to pass on this situation to your own blood?
The other option might be to realize you still prefer to live a more wild lifestyle in terms of s***and your current woman doesn't fit in anymore. In that case TALK to her. Communicate like a MAN and find a solution. Whether that be y'all work it out or y'all call the wedding off.
At the very least tell her. You don't want to live with the eternal guilt of betraying the one that should be your partner until you both die.
OP this whole post is genuine so I hope you listen
Needed this.
- Apr 29, 2024·1 reply
Naw but fr, are you planning to tell her? After giving my 2 cents I'm way too invested know and highkey need to see how this resolves itself @op
- Apr 29, 2024·1 replyNothim
I kno, I kno
Working on it
a genuine question, do you love your girl? Like do you actually enjoy being in a relationship with her
mishima 😈Apr 29, 2024I honestly think you’ve worked yourself to a place where you deserve a side ¯_(ツ)_/¯
- Apr 29, 2024Nothim
Needed this.
Sorry to sound like I'm preaching but glad you willing to listen
S***'s just too real of a situation to not take seriously man. Really think about all the potential lives you could indirectly affect and make the wise and grown choice!!
Rooting for you even if the OP makes you seem like you doing a****** s***. I'm not a saint either. We all need a chance to make our wrongs right. Go do that brother
- OPApr 29, 2024·1 replyFlyHiii
Naw but fr, are you planning to tell her? After giving my 2 cents I'm way too invested know and highkey need to see how this resolves itself @op
Definitely not telling my fiance.
Definitely breaking off my side piece doing better.
I'll have an update for yall tomorrow.
Apr 29, 2024sounds like every marriage ever, so keep doin you op
Apr 29, 2024·1 replyI don’t have any advice on the relationship situation but money comes and money goes. Consulting? That whole industry is trending the wrong direction. Get that prenup and save that money my guy.
- Apr 29, 2024Nothim· edited
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it most likely will
- OPApr 29, 2024·4 repliesLABRADOR
a genuine question, do you love your girl? Like do you actually enjoy being in a relationship with her
I'm madly in love with her tbh.
I just have some unresolved childhood/teenage s*** causing me to feel validated by sexual conquest. Almost like " I can pull b****es now! Am I enough?" type s***.
Working on it in therapy but I need to reflect that therapy work in real life.
- Apr 29, 2024Nothim
Definitely not telling my fiance.
Definitely breaking off my side piece doing better.
I'll have an update for yall tomorrow.
Don't let these trolls talk you into cheating on your fiancé being a good thing. Easy for them to say when it's not their life and their loved ones that's at risk
You making the right choice at least by stopping. And if you don't want to tell your fiancé that's on you I understand that it's difficult. But do realize that it might stay bothering you for years if you prefer a clean conscience and full peace of mind
Best of luck though fr fr
- Apr 29, 2024Nothim
I'm madly in love with her tbh.
I just have some unresolved childhood/teenage s*** causing me to feel validated by sexual conquest. Almost like " I can pull b****es now! Am I enough?" type s***.
Working on it in therapy but I need to reflect that therapy work in real life.
Yeah I know from a lot of experience that therapy is just a tiny percentage of the work
like pretty much 95 precent that matters happens outside of that room in the way you change your own behavior, surroundings etc etc
- OPApr 29, 2024Barry Gibb
I don’t have any advice on the relationship situation but money comes and money goes. Consulting? That whole industry is trending the wrong direction. Get that prenup and save that money my guy.
I started a consulting company that works with manufacturing plants. I provide engineering and procurement services. My main contract is till dec 2025 so I'm good. Honestly there's more work waiting for me just need solid SMEs.
Big yes on the prenup. Paid 2k for it and she's already signed.
- Apr 29, 2024
Youre kinda a woat person
But on the other hand i do understand if your girl never wanted s***anymore. Can be difficult
Still a horrible person tho
Apr 29, 2024Might be the craziest thread of the year so far. You're a pos op and i hope it blows up in your face
Its one thing if you don't have any labels with a shorty and you still f***ing around. You were just straight up cheating on your fiance. Scumbag
Apr 29, 2024NothimI'm madly in love with her tbh.
I just have some unresolved childhood/teenage s*** causing me to feel validated by sexual conquest. Almost like " I can pull b****es now! Am I enough?" type s***.
Working on it in therapy but I need to reflect that therapy work in real life.
A lot of men can relate to feeling validated by sexual conquest in later life, including me
The "I can pull b****es now; am I enough?" cycle won't stop.
I found myself making excuses for why a girl wanted to f*** or was attracted to me, and the insecurity was never satisfied.
Girlfriend caught on and now she carries that trauma with her wherever she goes. It's not worth it.