Something must be in the water today

sl*pt

Too many people living with trauma in the world. It makes me sad

Not everyone needs to know your dirty s*** bro

Lmao

That’s crazy. Mad f***ed up a teacher would do that. Weird how in society as a whole, it doesn’t come off as serious when it happens to guys

I was near black out drunk and a girl I didn’t know who was apparently sober dragged me to her room and started making out with me feeling me up. Thinking back I was like “damn yeah I was completely taken advantage of” but in my mind I don’t feel hurt or traumatized by it. Maybe it’s a power thing. Idk

like what the f*** are we doing lmaoo

YG opened up the flood gates

Same with me. Know by definition I was taken advantage of. But I don’t feel traumatized by it. I felt a more like “what the f*** this b*tch really did that s***” upon immediate understanding but after that haven’t felt much

feel like Macklemore been did that

With the “I thought I was gay” line? That’s light work compared to the stuff coming out these days

gay niggas got married at the Grammys with him performing the song and it was used as part of the campaign that helped overturn gay marriage rights

Oh interesting, didn’t know that

I’m not sure if that relates to what’s been going on lately with artists coming out about their childhood sexual abuse tho

you ever seen a rapper identify as they or wear a thong out for the night or a dress on an album cover?

it really did change s*** in the last decade not gone hold you cause now towing that line is welcome cause you can just say “nah I was just hiding a really big gun big bro” and niggas accept it lmaoo

There's a lot of men that have had experiences like this in their youth. And they don't even realize how much it hurt them until later in their adulthood because of how society views it

Macklemore has always been a real one.

part of it not being taken serious is because men rarely ever bring it up and even rarer report it

Nah with the appropriate care it’s good to say s*** to destigmatize these sorts of stories. Telling people to hold this s*** in ruins people normalizing conversation is good. Whatever Ye is doing is reckless tho he has no respect whatsoever

so we got a serial rapist teacher out there and the cops have not arrested her yet?
He already said she was 21 when he was in 7th grade how hard is it to find her?

the gender norm around a boy having sex/losing his virginity compared to a girl’s is a tale as old as time atp

for a boy, it’s portrayed as this positive and masculine trajectory into becoming a ‘real man’, so no matter how it happens, you’re taught to think its a good thing and a goal you’re racing to achieve

then for a girl, it’s portrayed way more delicately, always like a loss of innocence, and likened to a flower blossoming. so when it does happen, it is supposed to be an amazing experience. so when that doesnt happen, they either get shamed, or feel ashamed about it

both are problematic in their own ways

Yep lol. I even woke up with marks on my body (hickeys) and don’t even remember it happening feeling anything

It was weird but as you said I don’t feel really much when I think about. Just a strange memory lol

Keep yourself safe lil bro.