I want kids and marriage at some point

the problem that i'm having is that i'm literally trying to leave shorty but it's hard bc i care about her. so i can't just get up and leave bro. the problem is that i'm trying to but she's not making easy at all man.

no one understands these problems. who tf am i gonna talk to about s*** like this that can give actual valuable advice?

If you care about her you should probably just try to work out whatever problems you have and figure s*** out. Otherwise just ghost her?

Depends on what type of problems you have, I would suggest a therapist but i have no idea what type of place you're at.

Just left my shorty 2 weeks ago and it was hard but I had to do it.

I’ll continue to love her forever, even if we break up. No hard feelings.

ghost her? that's such a horrible thing to do. that's not an option.

I was in love but I grew into a different person who wanted more

Have a talk with her with what is bothering you

Then work s*** out, you either leave her or you don't. If you stay in contact with her after dumping her its not gonna end well.

::/

I was in love with her and she cared about me in a way but we wanted different things

This you cant stay floating around

she's very very high maintenance in terms of emotional support and if someone you love needs you, esp this much, it's bad to just ignore them. i'm tired of this s***.

yo, son. no one understands these circumstances bro.

if you are always going to leave her she cant start healing until you leave

waiting is without merit

Seems like you have two s***ty options in front of you, but you gotta pick one or you're gonna be stuck in the same situation

you're not a normal girl at all..

I had a girl like that years ago. Same with the one I left. They're not your responsibility once you leave. Grown woman need to handle their own emotions.

My mood has been so up and down

In one hand I miss her and the fun we had.
On the other hand it never would of worked cause our values were way different .

She didnt believe in relationship, marriage,commitment and starting a family. I did.

Doesnt cancel out all the good times we had.

At least now I know what I want for once

women require care & attentiveness. the way society presents certain concepts is baffling to me.