What is masculinity lol? I always wanted to ask but didn’t wanna look stupid.
Although this isn't exclusive to masculinity, it's honestly just being your true self and not caring about what others think imo. That to me is who I consider someone who is truly a grown man. Anyone that goes "Real men does x,y,z," is a lil boy performing what they think what masculinity is because they are doing things based off societal criteria and not what they truly want to do. Like if you choose not to like or do something because you think it's not "manly" are you grown, or p****? You're p**** if you are asking me
Yall ever notice there’s these weird discussions about masculinity?
Especially when it comes to heteronormative “standards” it kinda dont really make sense when you think bout it.
We had years and years of peoplw beggin men to open up and start being open with their feelings and emotions now we “sassy”
It’s almost like, lower down the toxic masculinity but not TOO much that I start to see you lesser than a man. But be progressive in your masculinity but not TOO progressive you look like a punk.
They killed ol boy (who I repeat IS a cornball) that made that tiktok video about why he prefers dating queer women over straight women but the last few weeks mofos said men wearing anything that glitters or with rhinestones are gae
See how confusing this s*** is?
They say, It’s hard out here for ol boy, then tell me where Taraji is

If you stay off the internet and just converse with people in real life it isn’t that crazy. Be honest and hard working and express yourself and most people will be cool with you.
Being a man is a blessing. So is being woman. Just embrace whoever you want to be and respect yourself.
Just be yourself and take care of you and your loved ones. All these certain roles you can only do because of your gender are dumb
If you wanna see the true condition of humanity go on tik tok live
What’s your takeaway?
Turn your mental prison into a maze
Turn the maze into a place where you're safe
Right now stepping on the graves even
Everything will wither and decay
But the energy will stay
Every day, early, late, every second even
Turn away for nothing, just in case
A sensation but it's strange
In a way everything is a secret even
Call myself a vessel, not a name
Call a taxi in the rain
Take a plane out of space to confess, I need it
Wanting validation from others is a female trait.
Masculinity should never be a prison just based off that
One of the stupidest posts ever written on here
If you wanna see the true condition of humanity go on tik tok live

Real though
it is but some of it’s necessary
fathers are needed and if your child sees no healthy masculine figures they will end up w no sort of quality to lead a family or anything
masculinity is knowing you’re right even when you’re wrong
Masculinity is probably one of the few harmful markers in the US that goes down YoY since the Reagan era
You got a marked decline in marriage, organized religion partakers, nuclear families and an increase in coming out as LGBT
Most of the bedrocks of at least stereotypically "masculine" men have been going by the wayside for decades and that never gets mentioned in threads like this lol
If you stay off the internet and just converse with people in real life it isn’t that crazy. Be honest and hard working and express yourself and most people will be cool with you.
Being a man is a blessing. So is being woman. Just embrace whoever you want to be and respect yourself.
I'd also say in general, 90% of "problematic" experiences probably don't occur off the net (at least with any frequently). Like I've gotten slurs and s*** IRL, but it's so fleeting, I'm not really raring to make thinkpieces about my local populace like you get from dudes on twitter or w/e