You done?
Not until you stop with these horrendous takes exalting child abuse.
So you admit you are talking out of your ass about something you know nothing about.
na what hes sayin is he dont wanna see you reply to him because he mentioned how he had a kid and you wanted to jump into the conversation to imply or basically all-but-flat-out say he's a bad father
imagine thinkin you were gonna get a productive conversation after that line's been crossed
Hitting is hitting fam. You can find more than enough studies that say that violence is inconsequential in its scale in relation To its effect
U can also find plenty studies on the opposing side. There's a reason why this is such a heavily debated topic
na what hes sayin is he dont wanna see you reply to him because he mentioned how he had a kid and you wanted to jump into the conversation to imply or basically all-but-flat-out say he's a bad father
imagine thinkin you were gonna get a productive conversation after that line's been crossed
lol stop it, dude made an ass of himself on page 1, i skipped 13 pages and he's still doing it
he was never going to have a "productive conversation" based off his first post
Spanking =/ bad parenting tho
It is one of the bad parenting methods. It's ineffective, traumatizing. Just a really lazy solution tbh.
@youngtubesteak2 you gotta learn how to communicate your thoughts in a single post without editing
i'm tired of checking your posts after quoting them to see you added some new sentences like it's DLC
U can also find plenty studies on the opposing side. There's a reason why this is such a heavily debated topic
No you actually can't lol there aren't a lot of studies supporting spanking in comparison to looking at the downsides of it
lol stop it, dude made an ass of himself on page 1, i skipped 13 pages and he's still doing it
he was never going to have a "productive conversation" based off his first post
man dont skip the 13 pages then, it's obvious sorrow doesn't want to have any conversation at all with this dude
it aint about a "productive" conversation
Inb4 whooping your kid is child abuse takes
I’d never hit my kids I’m not psycho
na what hes sayin is he dont wanna see you reply to him because he mentioned how he had a kid and you wanted to jump into the conversation to imply or basically all-but-flat-out say he's a bad father
imagine thinkin you were gonna get a productive conversation after that line's been crossed
We have been taking for ten pages now, I didn’t just jump in the thread. And if you believe hitting your child is okay, you are a bad parent, that’s not up for debate.
U can also find plenty studies on the opposing side. There's a reason why this is such a heavily debated topic
Not really
there's a scientific consensus that spanking is just not an effective way to shape behavior. just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's going to work for anyone else. just because you don't resent your parents or feel strongly about it doesn't mean your kid won't
in operant conditioning, positive punishment (adding a harmful/unwanted stimulus) is empirically the least effective reinforcement of behavior even when it isn't in the context of spanking
yall can take that gamble, that's your choice. this is why it's a hard topic to engage with you can see the responses itt.
just ask yourself if you would hit your wife/girlfriend because she f***ed something up you wanted her to do. not hard enough to leave marks but enough to "correct the behavior". there's a reason you hopefully won't do that - it's violence, we understand it's textbook domestic abuse. so why is it any different if you do it for a kid? because it's seen as culturally ok
How does a scientist even figure out all that s***? They measure the emotions? Lol maybe I’m being ignorant but I don’t think people can come in here and be like “research has proven…blah blah blah”
This ain’t some stuff u can study. I don’t see nothing wrong with this form of discipline. I’m not the type who would hurt a child and leave a bruise and a spanking isn’t going to leave a long lasting impression on a kid. Like basically as long as it didn’t leave a mark on the child I don’t see a problem. If ur leaving marks on ur kid then ur Doing too much. And also if ur spanking ur kid like every day then yeah maybe U should try to seek other help
Not until you stop with these horrendous takes exalting child abuse.
All you gotta do is shut the f*** up like I told you do in the first place. You the one that dragged your mopey ass in this discussion barnacle brain, maybe don’t do that if you don’t want to keep the topic running, thus seeing more of what I have to say. It’s not that serious, y’all are treating this s*** like i’m shooting babies in the f***ing head
How does a scientist even figure out all that s***? They measure the emotions? Lol maybe I’m being ignorant but I don’t think people can come in here and be like “research has proven…blah blah blah”
This ain’t some stuff u can study. I don’t see nothing wrong with this form of discipline. I’m not the type who would hurt a child and leave a bruise and a spanking isn’t going to leave a long lasting impression on a kid. Like basically as long as it didn’t leave a mark on the child I don’t see a problem. If ur leaving marks on ur kid then ur Doing too much. And also if ur spanking ur kid like every day then yeah maybe U should try to seek other help
You are being ignorant
All you gotta do is shut the f*** up like I told you do in the first place. You the one that dragged your mopey ass in this discussion barnacle brain, maybe don’t do that if you don’t want to keep the topic running, thus seeing more of what I have to say. It’s not that serious, y’all are treating this s*** like i’m shooting babies in the f***ing head
Super level headed response
You ever consider therapy?
You are being ignorant
Nah show me how they came up with that research?
Mine did. I had my favorite toy guitar snapped in half and continually beat over my bare ass until it bled. I had to pick a switch off the tree in the backyard. I got smacked across the mouth and ass repeatedly. And my parents took me to therapy when I was 12 and up because of my ADHD that was making me act out and causing me to get hit and they stopped hitting me after those meetings with my parents and the psychiatrist took place. My parents still loved me and took care of me but I was a b**** to put up with esp since the discipline early on ramped up my defiance. Now do you wanna tell me how soft my upbringing was and how that made me think this way?
No you actually can't lol there aren't a lot of studies supporting spanking in comparison to looking at the downsides of it
In a ton of the studies speaking bout the downside of spankings they list a counter argument and limitation on their study that being too many uncounted variables and the actual upsides of pain. There was one posted in the life section last time this debate started
Nah show me how they came up with that research?
I’m up 400 in poker do it urself
Spanking =/ bad parenting tho
You didn’t actually educate your kids if you’re threatening them with violence they just learn to keep s*** from you and lie to you
All you gotta do is shut the f*** up like I told you do in the first place. You the one that dragged your mopey ass in this discussion barnacle brain, maybe don’t do that if you don’t want to keep the topic running, thus seeing more of what I have to say. It’s not that serious, y’all are treating this s*** like i’m shooting babies in the f***ing head
You are glorifying child abuse, I will call that out until the day I die.
there's a scientific consensus that spanking is just not an effective way to shape behavior. just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's going to work for anyone else. just because you don't resent your parents or feel strongly about it doesn't mean your kid won't
in operant conditioning, positive punishment (adding a harmful/unwanted stimulus) is empirically the least effective reinforcement of behavior even when it isn't in the context of spanking
yall can take that gamble, that's your choice. this is why it's a hard topic to engage with you can see the responses itt.
just ask yourself if you would hit your wife/girlfriend because she f***ed something up you wanted her to do. not hard enough to leave marks but enough to "correct the behavior". there's a reason you hopefully won't do that - it's violence, we understand it's textbook domestic abuse. so why is it any different if you do it for a kid? because it's seen as culturally ok
Finding it completely wild that child abuse is more culturally ok than domestic one lol
Physically abusing someone who's totally vulnerable, dependant on you and got no choice to cut ties with you, how tf is this even remotely okay wtf?
We have been taking for ten pages now, I didn’t just jump in the thread. And if you believe hitting your child is okay, you are a bad parent, that’s not up for debate.
aite bro that's a sick thought for you to have, and whoever disagrees f*** em idc, the point is that bro wants you to stop bringin up his kid bc you aren't doin it out of some desperate desire to save his kid (which'd be insane in itself, you don't know any of these people), you're doing it to get Your Point Across
this conversation selfish as f***