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  • Jul 13, 2025
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    Grow a god damn pair man

  • Jul 13, 2025

    And im saying this as someone whos trying to get rid of that s*** 💯

  • Jul 13, 2025

    Peeps share way too much on this site

  • Stankie 🪑
    Jul 13, 2025
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    Q3D

    Grow a god damn pair man

    Mom just yelled at me for going to bed past 10pm 😕 I’m 25

  • Jul 13, 2025
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    this aint no way to live bro

  • Jul 13, 2025
    ASAKI

    Tbh OP I think you're prob doing this already but I'd try and line stuff up to move out as soon as you comfortably can

    Yep. Thank you.

  • Jul 13, 2025
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    Gosh

    Communication is very important bro, they don't run a hostel, the LEAST you can do is be like "Hey im staying out late with my friends tonight would you mind keeping the door unlocked" it's that easy and just simple respect

    True. I just get exhausted considering how draining and goalpost changing they are but I'm working on that

  • Jul 13, 2025
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    Stankie

    Mom just yelled at me for going to bed past 10pm 😕 I’m 25

    I drank soda after 10 and my parents yelled at me for it

    Im 34

  • Stankie 🪑
    Jul 13, 2025
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    Q3D

    I drank soda after 10 and my parents yelled at me for it

    Im 34

    F***ing b**** mom said no nintendo DS this week

  • Jul 13, 2025
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    Stankie

    F***ing b**** mom said no nintendo DS this week

  • Jul 13, 2025
    pedigree spirit

    this aint no way to live bro

  • Jul 13, 2025
    Valentine

    bruh just give them your location at this point and let them know you’re too grown to keep checking in but they can see your location and call you at any time

    I guess that'll do

  • Stankie 🪑
    Jul 13, 2025
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    Aquilla

    Fr though brother you gotta put your foot down (while also being respectful to your OGs of course)

    At a certain point you really need your own autonomy

  • Jul 13, 2025
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    Stankie

    Fr though brother you gotta put your foot down (while also being respectful to your OGs of course)

    At a certain point you really need your own autonomy

    You right. I feel I use to be able to put my foot but recently I haven't done it like that.

  • Jul 13, 2025
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  • Jul 13, 2025
    Noir
    !https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jMhrbrjJtfs

    Classic scene

    But I have multiple jobs

  • Stankie 🪑
    Jul 13, 2025
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    Aquilla

    You right. I feel I use to be able to put my foot but recently I haven't done it like that.

    Have a respectful conversation with them and tell them it’s time for you to have more autonomy and freedom, but make sure they know you also recognize you can do better like other people in here said (shooting them a text if you’re out late, etc)

    Other people in here said paying rent which isnt a bad idea

  • Jul 13, 2025
    Stankie

    Have a respectful conversation with them and tell them it’s time for you to have more autonomy and freedom, but make sure they know you also recognize you can do better like other people in here said (shooting them a text if you’re out late, etc)

    Other people in here said paying rent which isnt a bad idea

    Good points but I really don't vibe with them like that. I'll just be a bit more accommodating then

  • Jul 13, 2025
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    RICHAXXVOYCE

    Hopefully you’re in college? Even better if your school has year-round dormitories.

    You could stay on campus until your graduate and never have to step foot home again

    Lock in.

    So you guarantee they'll have a job that can pay for rent, food & transport at the minimum following graduation?

  • Jul 13, 2025

    I remember my mom tried something like that when I got arrested (for weed) when I was like 20 😂 I had a job & went to college though so she quickly realized she couldn’t actually enforced it in any way lmaooo

  • Stankie 🪑
    Jul 14, 2025
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    taskforcesector6

    So you guarantee they'll have a job that can pay for rent, food & transport at the minimum following graduation?

    ? Is this not the bare minimum nowadays

  • Stankie

    ? Is this not the bare minimum nowadays

    Not if you're so busy studying you live on or mostly on student loan

  • Jul 14, 2025

    i feel you op. just gotta speed run moving out

  • Br00ses 🐇
    Jul 14, 2025
    Stankie

    Have a respectful conversation with them and tell them it’s time for you to have more autonomy and freedom, but make sure they know you also recognize you can do better like other people in here said (shooting them a text if you’re out late, etc)

    Other people in here said paying rent which isnt a bad idea

    This is lame

    Stomp your 20+ year old feet and yell "I hate you mom! I wish I was never born!"

    And they could feel guilty and change their mind about grounding you

  • Br00ses 🐇
    Jul 14, 2025
    Aquilla

    Has anyone ever been through a moment like this?

    And if so, what does it say about the situation?

    But no what it says is that

    A) you still rely on them so they think of you as a little kid

    B) you pay them and they are just stuck in the past and you should move on